More than 20 million people in the UK are affected in some way by divorce or separation, according to research carried out by the charity, the Centre for Separated Families.

One in three people surveyed said that either their parents had separated or they themselves had separated from a partner with whom they had had children. Of those affected, only 33% had received professional advice, usually from a solicitor.

More than 50% said there was a lack of attention to the needs of non-resident parents in caring for their children. Karen Woodall, Director of the Centre for Separated Families and co-author of Putting Children First, said: “Increasingly, children continue to have contact with both parents. If this is handled well, then the outcome for children improves significantly. Where there is ongoing conflict, children can be damaged.

“We want to see services that really engage and support all parents in providing what children need in order for them to realise their full potential.” 

There’s no doubt that divorce and separation can be one of the most stressful experiences most people ever have to face. As well as the emotional trauma there can be a host of other issues to cope with such as reaching financial settlements and dealing with custody of the children.

No one should have to deal with these issues alone so it is important to get legal advice to ensure everything can go as smoothly as possible in what are often very trying circumstances.

There are several legal safeguards to protect everyone’s interests but often the best approach is to use mediation. That way issues can be resolved amicably to the benefit of all concerned, particularly the children who can sometimes be hurt and confused if their parents become locked in conflict. A trained mediator can often help couples overcome disagreements over such things as access to the children etc.

Please contact us if you would like more information about mediation or any aspect of family law.